In fact a number of women have said to me that they’re afraid of wasting time, while at the same time feeling that time is running out, so they’re trying to effectively compact, for example, what would be a years worth of dating for another person, into a couple of months. It may feel like you’re auditioning them for what you feel is the big job of being ‘The One’ but you and they are people with feelings, libidos, imaginations, and love habits that may be counterproductive to you actually getting the relationship you want – adding several people to the mix just makes it messy.
But equally, keeping your options open is about being non-commital and this is the mainstay of being emotionally unavailable and creating limited experiences that keep you ‘safe’ in a self-fulfilling prophecy bubble. Feeling like you have choices may convince you that you have more choices than you have and trap you indecision!
Gone are the days when you had to quit dating just because you'd been diagnosed with an sexually transmitted disease.Really multiple dating is just a code term for: 1) Keeping your options open.2) Being afraid of commitment because you’re afraid of getting hurt. Some people keep their options open because they want to shag around, they think there’s plenty of fish in the sea, and they also worry that someone who perfectly meets their criteria may be out there somewhere and are afraid of ‘settling’.At Positive Singles, we have been helping people with STDs find love and support since 2002.This is a warm-hearted and exclusive community for singles with Herpes and STDs.HPV, or human papillomavirus, is the name of a group of viruses that has more than 100 different types.HPV is sometimes called the wart virus because some types of HPV cause warts on the hands, feet or genitals. Continue Reading » Male condoms Latex condoms work really well in stopping most (sexually transmitted infections (STIs) from being passed from an infected partner to another when they are used consistently and correctly every time a person has oral, vaginal or anal sex. When you have Herpes, HPV, HIV or any STDs, it can make you feel like you are all alone in the world.If you wish there was a place where you didn't have to worry about being rejected or discriminated against, Positive Singles was designed with you in mind.When someone finds out at first that she/he might have herpes, usually feels like chances of meeting someone and forming a relationship have just been destroyed.This causes many people to turn to online dating sites. Who said you have to go straight to a relationship? A couple of weeks ago I wrote about why dating is a discovery phase for fact finding. I don’t want to get into a relationship too quickly?Hope is certainly a ray of hope for all those who are under the impression that STDs could mark an end to their love life.