Ive talked to him about the sex thing and he said he's willing to wait for me, this makes me love him even more. How do you know his feelings are as intense as yours?
Why would you want to date someone that's soon going to be four years younger than you anyway?As long as your relationship isn't sexual I'm pretty sure you'll be fine.And if you do have sex with a 14 year old I just might have to hunt you down and teach you a lesson. I've been in the States since 2001 (F-1 undergrad, then 1 year of F-1 OPT, and now with a new F-1 for grad school), 6 years so far and all at the same university in NYC. I know that when a child asks her/his parents for permission to "date" it is not only about going out with the girl/boy, they are also asking, "do you trust me? I will not give you advice as I do not know your family, your values, nor do I understand your relationship with your daughter. I know that the more parents try to keep their children young, the more their friends may pressure them to grow up. I know that you are in a position to open the communication for ALL her dating experiences.This is dangerous territory also because you have to keep in mind -- If at any point you piss her off, she could easily say that you had an inappropriate relationship with her and get you into a lot of trouble. While I have to wonder what attraction a 14 year old would have for a soon to be 18 year old, there is nothing illegal about dating. But it does mean you have to be EXTREMELY careful that it does not get physical. OK so I'm a 17 year old male turing 18 in three months and I'm dating a 14 year old freshmen girl turning 15 in 2 months, I was wondering weather an intamate relationship is out of the questions? This will be my first year filing the 1040EZ, and I have a few Q's... ANY sexual content beyond kissing and hand holding, can get you in trouble. Even then, you could still be in trouble because of the age difference. For example kissing, holding hands the works I understand the age of consent in Washington is 16 and... I have a 10 year old son who makes me incredibly happy! He goes to High School and she is in Middle School. By the end of the summer I can just say that I'm glad I was strong enough to say no as many times as I had to - not all girls will be able to do that, and not all boys will take no for an answer! Like I told my daughter "i'm still waiting for the book i was suppose to get PARENTING 101 from the hospital " HA HA. Well I talked to my daughter and told her there will not be "DATING" until she's 16. The whole thing started with a movie, and then hanging out at each others houses while mom's were home, and our moms' were friends too.Sending texts to and from each other of a sexual nature would be illegal.If she sends you a naked picture, you are in possession of illegal pornography.I am a 14 year old girl, I think I'm in love with my best friend who is 18, he really likes me too. We wouldn't have sex because that's illegal but do you think it is still OK to date? Also have you talked about this with your parents, they would also have to approve. Plus at 18 soon he will be thinking of sex, no matter what you are saying now. But I think the 5 month thing is a good idea BTU I don't think I going to break the law I wanted tp keep the friendship till I was old enough to be with him, but when I'm aroound him being friends just isn't enough. He is an adult, and in the adult world, when intense feelings are involved, that's when there are mistakes made, and consequences to pay. Plus at 18 soon he will be thinking of sex, no matter what you are saying now. But as a dad, I wouldn't allow my 14 year old to date an 18 year old. Its just me and my mom at home and she went though the same siuation when she was my age. But it's the young immature love of a 14 year old, intense feelings with good intentions, for a grown man, and that puts you into territory that requires the proper supervision, for when friends is not enough.Anything of a sexual nature, Kissing, heavy petting, sex, oral, vaginal or anal, or any act that would be done for sexual gratification would be illegal. The crime could be 2nd or 3rd degree sexual abuse of a minor.