Asian women have been seen as exotic since the times of Marco Polo for the very simple reason that they are just that – exotic in every sense of the word.
In addition to their stunning beauty a lot of American and European men lust after Asian women because of their willingness to do what it takes to make their relationship – and ideally their marriage with you – work for many years to come.
The whites, the Jews, the Chinese — nobody will ever accept them.” “WHAT. From our dear family friend and her “concern” over my husband’s and my nonexistent children, to the couple at Denny’s who loudly talked about how “upsetting” and “shameful” we were, ugly commentary about my interracial marriage usually fell into three major categories. But when people did cast judgement, there was no mistaking it, no lack of subtlety. On my husband’s side, as a Ph D student researching Japanese culture, some of his peers would lay eyes on me and, without even bothering to find out if I was Chinese, Japanese, Korean, etc., would roll their eyes and say, “Of COURSE you have a Japanese wife.” The idea that my husband MUST be so obsessed with all things Japanese that he had to “get him one of them Japanese girls” came up more often than I ever expected.
I will say that while living on the mainland US, people were rather predictable with their ignorant comments. As Japan is a very polite and considerate culture, my husband and I mostly went about our daily life with relatively few negative reactions — save for the occasional stares from older people or children on the subway.
Chinese women are beautiful and so are American women. However, they have totally different thoughts and behaviours due to the disparity of culture and national conditions. S., having sex with men will enhance women’s happiness; In China, having sex is considered by women as a lifetime devotion. American women always believe that their husband is most handsome man in the world; In eyes of Chinese women, Korean movie stars and British football players are the most handsome men on the planet.
Below are 12 differences between Chinese women and American women. S., women always want to be husband`s friend; In China, women sometimes argue irrationally with men and sometimes become a happy concubine.
What’s really surprising is that of that 2 billion people there are literally hundreds of millions of single Asian women actively looking for relationships with non-Asian men – and for a wide variety of reasons.
S., if you meet above-mentioned Chinese women, they must marry a useless American man and then write how happy her marriage is; In China, if you come across a Chinese woman who is like above-described American woman, she must be the gem, and you should cherish her.
American men have always been fascinated by exotic Asian women.
No one is spared in Stephanie’s deconstruction of the Wild West of relationships that is Shanghai.
She uses this opportunity to complain about both men and women from China and abroad, implicating everyone for their part in contributing to her plight.