The app, which launched on January 16, allows users to choose from over 500 messages with 30 categories, including After Date, Sexting, After Sex, What Are We?
, Birthday, Not Interested, Stopped Responding, Questions and Romantic.
Saying a simple, "hi", "hello," or "whassup," makes you easy to ignore and forget. If your ego is sore because she didn't respond, an 'unmatch' is all that is needed. Asking if she wants anal in your first sentence isn't the way to go.
" Keep it casual: In a 2009 analysis Ok Cupid performed on 50,000 first messages, the most responded-to greetings took a casual, even unusual tone.
While openings like "hi" typically got an opening rate of 27%, Ok Cupid's Christian Rudder writes, the "more informal standard greetings: how's it going, what's up and howdy" performed better.
Bumble, created by a former Tinder founder, has found success because its marketing campaign has attracted an elite crowd, but the thought of putting actual effort into app dating has always overwhelmed me.
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