that she is "like, so gay," the 26-year-old actress didn't mean to diminish the love they shared.

"I didn't talk about my first relationships that went public because I wanted things that are mine to be mine," she tells .

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"I didn't talk about my first relationships that went public because I wanted things that are mine to be mine.

I hated it that details of my life were being turned into a commodity and peddled around the world.

The 26-year-old actress shared that she "didn’t talk about my first relationships that went public because I wanted things that are mine to be mine.

I hated it that details of my life were being turned into a commodity and peddled around the world." But as she's gotten older — and experienced firsthand more of the positive and negative sides to superstar levels of fame — she has realized that relationship struggles are a universal experience, and they affect "a greater number of people than just me.