Below are five unbeatable ways to attract the ladies.1.
If you start off as friends and she has a chance to get to know you, have fun with you, and also has an opportunity to fall in love with who you are, she can and will most likely be able to accept your height and love you for who you are! Finding a woman who is also vertically challenged will give you both a commonality and minimize your height as an insecurity in your relationship.If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident.Appearing with me was one of my all-time favorite clients, Tom Pandolfo. We renamed him “Look Ma No Hair.” And we watched as his in-box filled up with interested women.If you are not naturally funny, take a comedy class or tap into your funny bone because a sense of humor will make any short man a tall cup of attractive! If you can become gifted at mingling and attracting a crowd then you will have no problem attracting the ladies.The psychology behind this is that people want to be around people who are desired by other people and it is easier to be approached and openly flirt with a woman who willingly joined the crowd.To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS’ Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. Sherr asked whether there’d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. And although you can feel free to substitute “older women”, “older men”, “heavier women”, or “Asian men”, I honestly feel that nobody gets a rawer deal than short guys.She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who’d made millions by the age of 25. One of the women replied, “Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers.” Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Honestly, ladies…You can get your own dishes from the top shelf. So, after hiring me as his dating coach, we set to work in rebranding him on We had Tom fill out my long questionnaire and submit to an hour of questions from me on the phone.You can see what a great experience it was in this CBS Early Show clip: What I haven’t yet mentioned is that Tom Pandolfo is 5’3″.It's easy to underestimate how important it is just to look each other right in the eye. Probably while he was chilling in a bar in college, a tall, beautiful woman pointed at him and drunk whisper-yelled to her friend, "He's so cute but also short. " She's a sad, vague memory now, and you are the most beautiful lady in the world to him.7.When you need to complain about something beyond your control, he empathizes. The only reason you paid 0 for cropped boyfriend jeans this spring is because Katie Holmes went out in her shortie ex Tom Cruise's pants looking so badass the trend is still going, six years later. Even when he puts your wine glasses on the top shelf, you can still get to them when you need to.It seems like the odds are stacked against you as a short man. It’s harder to get dates when you’re shorter than average.But, getting dates isn’t impossible for short guys.If you walk around as if your height is a hindrance, then women or people in general will see you as less attractive because having a lack of confidence is always a turn off. Keep you chest full of pride and your head up high and you too will stand out as a desired catch among women! Funny men are attractive because it feels so good to be around them.